SELFPRIDE

Everyone assumes that they are someone special by birth, they possess these nature by birth, giving self-important is hereditary trait or the process of natural selection.

We in our general life proudly confess that we are the most appropriate person in every specific field, we supposed to be in the films where actors defeat the villains, and we put ourselves in that situation. We want to be special in every specific task like we wanted to become doctors, we wanted to become engineers, space astronaut or actors in some point of life. We see our self as particular integrity that resembles immortality, we assume we can see the past and also predict the future, we want everything justified by our rules and it must fits to our culture neither we signify themselves as taboo.

We proudly confess, we are the generation emerged from the apes but suddenly we think oneself as significantly developed than them, we compared to be emotional than computers, we want to be at higher level, if also if computers developed with artificial intelligence with emotions we want to control them and manipulate them in our accordance, thus it gives us feeling of supremacy.

We generalize other persons behaviour on their outfits and their behaviour, we thinks on our particular way on subtle term of subconscious level, if a black guy walks over we presume that he may be from Africa .We only think as much as our brain wants our knowledge provides us with. In reality the black peoples may be from any continent like they may be from India Andaman and Nicobar Islands where these communities have been stranded for thousands of year, they may be from south America or any other country.

The particular way of thinking and considering oneself as a supreme of others can be considered as narcissism and behaving and violating other human rights of other people can be considered as racist people. These people has on mindset which was implanted by their environments which has been brought by their upbringing as other people are like unreal or which has no purpose, it is senseless for their existence.

We want love that completely fit with us, we want to approve relationships by marrying and making court papers, we want everything to be reasonable, we have also ignored the presence of god by substituting with the big bang theory. We live with our own rules if someone interferes with us, we are disrupted and we quickly tried to eliminate them. People have no time to be with someone who have problems but they can be alone and purposeless laying in couch alone for numbers of years. The people want purpose in their life why were they created and like other sorts of things but they doesn’t know sex created them and it is biological science. They want to be brave, richer, passionate and famous who will be praised by millions of people, they want to be motivator, influencer impacting every people life. These feelings lies deep with us and can never be ignored because they are the key things for our growing.

People have avenged, committed crimes, adultery, revenged they think they can justify. History has been falsified by the people who was passionate to cult. The generations simply adores the history and praise them without much knowing the history.

We want good sex life but we also want devoted lover, we want money, fashionable goods, and luxury items but only for us. We contemplate happiness can be only found by seeing lacking of others and growing our nonessential needs. We are materialistic people and want every new products as soon they arrived, we ruined by electronics and machines are lazy as fuck and want everything on our click. People also have created food delivery applications that lets you to order food from restaurants we don’t have time or we don’t want to face people but we can lie alone on the couch with belly bottom watching Netflix.

We can see other people attractive all the times like ladies for instance but we want our love to be deeply with us, we consider them as soul mates but as opportunity strives we can go on our own way with someone new leaving them forever. We don’t want to respect other people feeling that are with us but we tried to make new world and relationship that can be never part of us. We want to ignore the emotions the time spent the feelings by legal document of divorce papers to end relationship but deep in mind the love is still in intact. We can never deal with it but we go our life by ignoring.

This feeling of selfless has been put under effect by swami and rishi on ancient Vedic text but they are also devoted to someone they also belong with hindu tradition. The people thinks they are only the adherents of true religion and their religion justify all the natural laws, but reality is crude because 4000 religions may surely created ambiguity by confusing them with reality.

People have received teaching from god but why the teaching can’t be received by all the people or the people in journey with them. May be they are the prophets designated by gods so why were they unusual on sending message all over the world if god was with them.

Religion has foster on aspect of tribe and race, Also the war and strong socio and political aspect has also played dominant roles on spread of religion. For example Hinduism majorly lies in Indian subcontinent, Islam lies majorly on Middle East.

Hinduism has approached people on level of karma their life as result of past life, their deeds and their behaviour can only lead them to way of moksha (eternal journey to god). Unless we have to continue the practise of rebirth.

Some people on every field regard themselves as pioneers but they can never visualize how much effort the others people have played on their roles, for example we can only see the acts of drama actor from front, but we don’t know how many people are associated with the play. The background sound player, visual effects person, director, spot boy etc.

We are like actors on front of drama play who is in lime light and popular, but people in back are always to be abandon. We ignore family, friends, and relationship simply to acknowledge by whole world but they are the base which support us.

We want constant concentration, support motivation more than others, we think we are peculiar and significantly more important than others. If our resources and supplements are not enough we become demotivated, we become depressed and only see lack of ourselves. Likewise we can only be happy if someone contributes us with goods and money that we are desperate of but we do not consider to be generous if the situation is reverse.

The narcissist behaviour can grow in level of family, groups, tribes, religions, nations and species.  Every people think they have more to grow on, they live their whole life earning and eventually spending in age care facility. They are clueless about time going they just want to falsify things and ignore the relationship to move on ,at future when they become old they know they haven’t live their life they were always complaining what wasn’t there with them but not respecting what was with them .

We think our self as distinct, we don’t consider the situation of breaks up, ups and down because we are impenetrable by pain. We can never be accompanied by pain and frustration ,but when the situation arises our whole world gets shake up like earthquake occurred, we will surround ourself with pool of remorse ,tears which has no meaning because we didn’t think about consequences. People didn’t have time to maintain relationship while it was only backed up by paper document, they were true fellow of optimism on every aspect of life now on they will adhere pessimistic until situation changes. The shift is big and dark and make vital changes on personal behaviour.

Why we are so dispersed and obnoxious at same time, while we also know that loneliness is the most distressful thing, we hide our feelings, emotion particular to beat other on terms of bravery but we freak the most. Why we can’t simply comply with the reality and stop expecting the things like we may have done some sorts of things in better ways, the relations we may have created, we must have to accept the fact that nothing is going to change, we must have to accept the fact, we must need other people whether they may be bad or good, we need them. Thus acceptance prevails us to thrive and grow our world, which leads to world of uncertainty, unpredictability that’s the beauty of life. We must have that slingshot that makes us limitless open our heart and be compassionate about other people.

Every person in this world have 24 hours to live in a day, every progress they have done is through continuous effort and persistency. The progress of the human is enormous, but we choose what is important for us, we make our careers, we make decisions, we make dreams come true. In small children age, we are fascinated by new face, we want to make new friends and have strong relationship with them but as the time goes we forget all the things we make laugh about others falls, we are more to bullying that is unseen. Though in person mentality more fallings make us abundant of resources but we don’t want to improve ourselves, we just want to see other weakness. We are preserving ourselves just to attack others person weakness.

We are hypocritical insomniac generations living deceitful life, we are swarmed by facebook news, youtube videos recommendations, we are flooded by works loads constant pressure, but we don’t have time to look for personal adventure but it is also how much interest we do have. We don’t want to give importance to others rather we like to be alone because we are afraid that we may be ignored, the experiences we have from past memories flows through our veins and nerves, we blackout and give them no chances to offer. Thus, story closes and the next day’s goes on same like forever. We give so much important to ourselves. The population of world is at staggering no of 7 billions, there are millions minds like you, you have to be yourself and love the way you are, whether you are weak or strong you must have to lean on someone.

  

If you are weak a coward then its ok to be with it, but you must have to grow to be fearless and strong but if you are strong you were also weak at some point of life, so don’t intimidate weak peoples. The weak people can work on group to kill your ego.

Grow passion to live your life learn new things do create, live the reality face the obstacles, if you want to be someone you must have to lose yourself and accept all things that comes on the way. Your ego doesn’t go with you on coffin when you are buried or cremated. People praise by your benevolence not your ego. Remembering old things can’t make any difference at all you must have guts to look to present and deal with past, leave it, just focus on present to be precise, the future will be yours